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Balancing Independence: Supporting Without Hovering

This month’s podcast, “Balancing Independence: Supporting Without Hovering,” features a thoughtful conversation with Keith Garcia, a retired financial services executive, American Red Cross volunteer, and proud parent of two sons who served in the United States Army.

In the podcast, we break down:

  • The difference between being supportive and being over-involved

  • Why letting go can actually strengthen relationships

  • How parents can manage their own anxiety without passing it on

  • Ways to stay close emotionally while allowing space for growthOur featured guest, Joy Luck, brings heartfelt insight and practical strategies from her experience as a military spouse. Her perspective will inspire families to celebrate creatively, strengthen connections, and keep spirits high — even when distance or duty makes the holidays challenging.

Keith brings a calm, grounded perspective shaped by both professional leadership and lived experience as a military parent. His insights offer reassurance, clarity, and practical guidance for families learning how to trust the process while staying connected.

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Join us on Wednesday, January 28, 2026, from 6:30 PM to 7:30 PM EST, for an insightful and supportive conversation designed to help parents navigate one of the most challenging parts of the military journey—balancing independence while staying emotionally connected.

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To get the most out of this event, we encourage you to view / listen to the podcast episode below in advance

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Join Us For Our Upcoming Event!

Event Topic: Letting Go, Staying Close: Emotional Transitions for Parents
Date: January 28th
Time: 6:30pm EST | 5:30pm CST | 4:30pm MST | 3:30 PST

During this live session, we’ll discuss:

  • What supporting without hovering really looks like

  • How to build trust while respecting independence

  • Healthy communication and emotional boundaries

  • Navigating the emotional transitions parents experience as their young adults serve

  • LIVE Q&A with our guest, Keith Garcia

This is a safe, supportive space for parents to ask questions, share concerns, and receive guidance from someone who understands the realities of military family life.

Register now for this and upcoming future events covering your family’s journey

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